Updates Again...

Still no baby!
I'll be 39 weeks tomorrow and at my last doctor's appt on Thursday, I was still 1 cm dilated but now I am 50% effaced. The doctor said my cervix was a lot softer so I guess that's a good sign that we will be going soon!
My doctor also said if I am still pregnant at my appointment this Thursday then we will schedule a c-section. She said she will give me one week past my due date to try to have the baby naturally but after that, it's a c-section. I guess VBACs can't be induced so it's either do it natural w/ no help or have another c-section.
Not great options but I'm just excited to meet this little girl so however she has to come out, is fine with me :)

Mike and JJ have been great helpers--yesterday I thought was "it"--my back was killing me all day and my contractions were about 13 minutes apart at the closest. Mike and JJ let me lay down all day and rest. It was great (if you ignored the contractions and pain!) But then the contractions peetered out around 11pm so I guess the baby didn't think it was time yet!

We will keep you posted on when the big day happens!

Mendon Ponds

Mike took JJ on a hike in Mendon Ponds Park. Mike said that he loved wandering all over and didn't want to leave :)

More Easter Pics

JJ loved dying eggs and really liked having his first Easter egg hunt. His new obsession is 'Cars' so in his Easter basket, he was blessed w/ tons of Cars merchandise!

Happy Easter

Updates and Such

We are still here w/ not too much new to report! No baby yet--I'm 36 1/2 weeks and doing alright :)

I'm going to work for one more week and then stay home til the baby comes!

Today at RSD, there was a shower for myself and Christine, another teacher who is due 3 weeks after me. It was great--we were definitely spoiled! I can't wait to put the lil one in all of the cute clothes :) We even got big brother/little sister shirts for JJ and the baby :) too cute!

Here are some recent pictures of JJ--he loves his lady bugs! We are working on not pinching them and "breaking" them as he calls it :)

Also, we had a ton of snow last weekend, Jay loved it! I wish I wasn't so big so I could go sledding/tubing/hiking etc in the snow...oh well, here's hoping for next year!

For the West Wing fans

An interesting look at how the current political campaigns compare to the 2004 season of The West Wing.

As a fan of both the show and Obama, I thought this was entertaining!

J-A-Y-S-O-N

JJ has learned to spell his name--in spoken English, in written English and in ASL!
Enjoy two video clips-- one of him signing his name (Sorry if it's dark) and one of him writing it.
Gotta love my bi-bi baby!

Some of JJ's favorite birthday presents

Lisa, Kevin and "Baby Emma" gave JJ a play-doh animals set--I highly recommend this for toddlers--JJ loves putting the animals together and not worrying about it being perfect (think Mr. Potato Head but w/ a play-doh body)
Scott, Jen and Tyler gave JJ a batman costume--he loves running around and making the cape "fly"!
A communal gift for JJ--The RSD science teacher donated the tank; Barry, Christina and Lucian gave JJ a gift card to pick out the fish; and Mommy and Daddy bought the rest! JJ named the four fish Nemo, Dori, Hey Little Fella (can you see a Finding Nemo theme??) and Up n Down. Mommy changed Hey Little Fella's name to Rip Off cuz he died in two days...

Pictures of JJ's First Day

JJ getting ready for school
JJ's all ready!
After school hangin' out
Notice that the backpack never comes off!

Feeling Like a Craptacular Mom...

Today was JJ's first day of school!! And ofc, I'm working and not there.
Ugh, I never knew I would feel so guilt ridden as a working mom...

BUT, Mike just sent me this message so I'm feeling a little bit better:
"When we arrived there and he was so excited. We walked into building as Mrs. Wasnock was standing by to welcome Jayson in. He walked fast straight to same classroom. Then we walked up to Jennifer's office. JJ is excited and grabbed her hand. He pulled her and mine hands to classroom. Jenn showed him where coat and bag hang up (#9) he seems so distracted with other kids ha he jumped and walked ard in room while other kids sat down on floor. Teacher aide laughed and told me she'll handle him until he settles down then I said bye bye JJ. He came up and kissed me then walked away."

Mike also said "far out small world" cuz Gerry Bateman was at the school to observe a teacher working w/ one of the mainstreamed Deaf kids. Gotta love the Deaf community! Also, Jennifer that Mike mentioned above is the secretary at the school--she's a CODA so she interprets for Mike when we go to school. It's nice to have someone in the front office that can communicate w/ our family--especially since Mike will be the one picking JJ up and dropping him off every day.

I'm glad JJ is adjusting well and having a good time--I'm hoping he never knows how heart-breaking it is for me not to be there. Will let you know later how the rest of the day goes--I also have some cute pixs to publish of his first day of school outfits--JJ got a new backpack to bring to school and his been wearing it EVERYWHERE (even to the bathroom and to bed!) :)

Juno

I HEART THIS MOVIE.
Maybe it's because I'm pregnant.
Maybe it's because the opening scene of the movie features Rainn Wilson (Dwight from The Office).
Maybe it's because I only go to the movies once a year...
but man, was it good.

Lisa and I leave the kids home w/ the hubbies and head off to the movies once a year (yes, I know it should be more often but that's just not our reality...) and this year we picked Juno to see.

We went to The Little--cuz where is a better place to see a movie??--and it was so good. Ellen Page rocked and the dialogue was amazing--just a very good honest real movie.

And hey, a movie that can get me liking a song by a group called the "Moldy Peaches" has to be something powerful...

Click on the movie poster to see the trailer (complete w/ Rainn Wilson's best line ever)
Click on the picture of Michael Cera and Ellen Page to watch them perform the song 'Anyone Else But You' by the Moldy Peaches.
Click here to see the lyrics to 'Anyone Else But You'
Enjoy!

JJ's Three Year Check-up

We took JJ for his three year well check yesterday--hard to believe my baby isn't a baby anymore!
He did great--passed everything with flying colors--he could even identify the letters and pictures on the eye test! The nurse weighed him twice because she was concerned that in one year he has gained 8 pounds..but the weight was accurate, he's just a big tall boy!

I looooooove his doctor--ever since JJ had stitches he has some "issues" with doctor's offices but his dr is so great, JJ just loves him and responds really well to him. When the appointment was finished, Jay told his doctor "that was fun, see you soon!"

We also had to get all of his paperwork and shots records up to date b/c JJ starts preschool tomorrow! I think I'm having typical (at least I hope it's typical!) first baby leaving the nest jitters--I've even become that awful parent who has already emailed the teacher...
I know Jay will love it and he will do great but there is a definite part of me that is struggling to let him go! At least Mike is the one who has to take him and drop him off ;) I would hate to embarrass him by being "that mom" who is sobbing and taking pictures in the parking lot...

I'll keep you posted on how it goes!

Our Pregnancy Photographer

If you get a chance, check out http://www.bellisimaphotography.com/
That is the website of the photographer who has been doing our pregnancy pictures. Some of our pictures are displayed under Maternity and others are under Portraits.
Jennifer, the owner of Bellisima Photography is great--she comes to our house, works really well with Jayson, and is extremely affordable. If you are local, I highly recommend her!

Hard to believe we will be shooting our 9 month pictures next week!

Jimmy Tops Sarah

On a lighter note...

Jimmy Kimmel finally responded to Sarah Silverman's video regarding her extra-curricular activities with Matt Damon.

It's pretty funny--how many celebrities can you count? Enjoy a much needed funny break :)

Kevin Mowl

Our friend, Kevin Mowl, passed away this morning.
Click on this link to the Democrat and Chronicle to see the first of what I'm assuming will be many news articles.

Here are some additional links:

Channel 13

R News

Channel 10
Also, on the left in my links list, is Kevin's webpage.

34 weeks...

Well. Today I am 34 weeks and I am about at the end of my rope...

I have maxed out my ideal weight gain--last week at the doctors, I wanted to physically hurt the nurse when she was taking my weight--don't they know how traumatic (and loud) it is when they slam the metal weight thingy up to the next 50 pounds??
It was like I was watching in slow motion--slide the little measuring thingy to right. little more. little more. oh no, we are at the end and then BAM--whizzzzzzzzz it gets sent flying back down to the other end and then the giant SLAM as she throws the weight marker up another 50 pounds. And then she starts all over--little more to the right. little more...At this point, I was horrified and just staring and sending brain waves to her to a.) BE QUIET and b.) have a little compassion for the fatty on the scale... ugh. it was just ugly.

I told Mike last night that I am having such an internal struggle--I hate being this big but I. am so. hungry.
Please, someone tell me what hormonal/chemical need this baby is having that causes me to crave peanut butter cup ice cream at all hours of the day/night?

Dancing Machine

On Monday we had a family party for JJ's and his cousin Sam's birthdays--they are one year and one day apart so it's nice for them to celebrate together.

After playing w/ all of the new toys, my sister got out the karaoke machine and boy did Jay love it! (I'll ignore the fact that he liked singing to High School Musical the best...*shudder*)
What he couldn't decide tho was which he liked better--singing to the crowd or checking out his reflection in the fireplace :) Vanity run in my family much? It might be genetic....

Anyhow, enjoy the video--and ignore the nose picking at the end...gotta love the three year old bad habits that have already kicked in!

Success!

Well, the party turned out great!! Everyone came and all of the kids had a great time :) The cake turned out well and most importantly, JJ loved it!

On Sunday, my mom, Steve, and Katie came over to visit with JJ on his birthday (and ofc, brought presents!)

Mike and I gave JJ a trumpet for his birthday--he absolutely loves music and any kind of instruments so we just knew he would love it. We also got him a fish tank but that has yet to be set up ;)

Updates

Morning,
Just a few updates--I had an ultrasound yesterday-- the baby is head down (yay!), weighs 4lbs 6 oz (double yay!) and I'm not dilated yet (triple yay!) :)
So, she is growing well, despite the blood loss found in the high AFP level and I'm thankfully not dilated yet despite my sinking and dropping belly!

This weekend we will have JJ's birthday party...I told Mike that we were going to have a small get-together--I'm too darn big to be cleaning and cooking and entertaining...
Well, that plan went right out the window.

We will have 20 people over (7 kids under 7!) and I'm working on the menu now... JJ picked out the cake he wanted--click here if you want to see what I am going to tackle making tonight...thank goodness Scott is coming over to help me finagle it and figure out what I am doing!
I will take pictures of the final result--if you see a photo of a Wegmans bakery cake instead of the train cake--you will know it didn't turn out pretty!

Have a great weekend and I will post tons of birthday party pixs on Sunday!! And YAY living back in New York has it's perks--schools are closed next week for February Break--can't wait to take it easy and enjoy a week off!!

2 going on 16

JJ has become adamant about getting himself dressed in the morning...based on his clothing choice for this day, I feel we have a future angst-ridden, skateboarding teen on our hands!! And please notice the shorts...it's like 5 degrees outside....